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The Inner Family You Didn’t Know You Had: A Guide to Internal Family Systems

In traditional psychology, we’re often taught to see the mind as singular—one unified voice that should “make up its mind” or “figure itself out.” This is known as the mono-mind perspective, the idea that we should have one clear, rational sense of self. When you, say, blow up at your partner during a conflict, the mono-mind perspective might say that you simply lost control, acted irrationally, or need to “do better” next time. It assumes that [...]

Sienna Forest2025-04-08T15:17:39+00:00April 8, 2025|Tags: authenticity, connection, Internal Family Systems, mental health, parts work, relationships|

Coming Home to Yourself: My Offerings for Authentic and Embodied Living

So many of us go through life out of sync with what we truly want and who we genuinely are. We say yes when we mean no. We strive to be easygoing, to not rock the boat, to keep things simple for others—even at the cost of our own needs. We show up in ways that feel inauthentic because we’re afraid of what might happen if we let our true selves be seen. And in [...]

Sienna Forest2025-03-14T14:32:18+00:00March 5, 2025|Tags: authenticity, breakups, connection, couples therapy, dating, relationships, somatic therapy, therapy, vulnerability|

Finding Your Voice in Relationships: The Power of Differentiation

Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about how things shift when we’re in a romantic relationship. It’s fascinating how easily the lines between what I need and what they need get blurred. Differentiation—the ability to hold onto your own sense of self while staying connected to your partner—can get really tricky. It sounds simple, but it’s something that can quietly slip away without us even realizing. Take this for example: When I’m single, I feel so [...]

Sienna Forest2025-02-24T20:12:31+00:00October 18, 2024|Tags: accountability, boundary, communication, conflict, connection, couples therapy, dating, differentiation, Marthakauppi, needs, partnership, relationships, responsibility, trust, vulnerability|

The Paradox of Choice: Swiping for a Soulmate

I have been thinking a lot recently about dating and relationships in my generation, about the challenges of finding lasting love in a world that tells us we should seek perfection. Dating apps give us so many options, and just like when we get overwhelmed at the supermarket trying to decide between 17 different types of toilet paper, having the ability to just swipe right or left on an infinite number of potential suitors is both [...]

admin2024-09-11T01:24:17+00:00February 2, 2024|Tags: conflict, cool girl, couples therapy, dating, dating apps, modern dating, paradox of choice, perfection, relationships, technology|